I just don't know what's so special about the north pole which the south pole finds so attractive and vice versa. Personally I don't have any problem with their preferences as long as the magnets on my refrigerator's door are able to defy gravity.
But when we begin to apply the theories of physics to our lives, I think there's unnecessary 'complication'.By a perfect match do we really mean "Oh!He/She is so not like you"??
Or when we comfort someone saying you will find someone better, we actually mean the more diametrically different person you come across next time,the better it is?? Do People look for photocopies then?? Ooopss...that would be like spending time with one's twin!!
How about a mix of like and unlike characters??Someone who is contrasting enough to complement us and fit into our lives like those missing pieces in an incomplete jigsaw puzzle. And at the same time who has more or less a similar thought process like ours.
Someone who would understand us completely. Less differences in ideas would probably mean an enjoyable walk in the journey of life.
"Opposite attracts" now seems so passé!! Instead how is "the perfect ratio of opposite and similar characters attracts (the ratio varying from person to person and from time to time)"??Phew!!No wonder humans are the most evolved ones on this planet (way ahead of magnets that is) :P
