Thursday, December 29, 2011
OPPOSITE aTtRacTSSSSSS
I just don't know what's so special about the north pole which the south pole finds so attractive and vice versa. Personally I don't have any problem with their preferences as long as the magnets on my refrigerator's door are able to defy gravity.
But when we begin to apply the theories of physics to our lives, I think there's unnecessary 'complication'.By a perfect match do we really mean "Oh!He/She is so not like you"??
Or when we comfort someone saying you will find someone better, we actually mean the more diametrically different person you come across next time,the better it is?? Do People look for photocopies then?? Ooopss...that would be like spending time with one's twin!!
How about a mix of like and unlike characters??Someone who is contrasting enough to complement us and fit into our lives like those missing pieces in an incomplete jigsaw puzzle. And at the same time who has more or less a similar thought process like ours.
Someone who would understand us completely. Less differences in ideas would probably mean an enjoyable walk in the journey of life.
"Opposite attracts" now seems so passé!! Instead how is "the perfect ratio of opposite and similar characters attracts (the ratio varying from person to person and from time to time)"??Phew!!No wonder humans are the most evolved ones on this planet (way ahead of magnets that is) :P
Sunday, February 6, 2011
~~ThE aRT oF BoaSTiNg~~
The most common tendency of people I have come across is "giving ads", or in simple word boasting!! Gone are the days when people would just relentlessly go on and on exaggerating about their accomplishments or that of their near ones, thus diminishing the interest of the listener :P!! The art of boasting has evolved over the years. It has become more subtle :D. And the main purpose of this is to retain the attention of the listener....
One thing that remains constant about boasting is that it is extremely contagious. Once a person starts boasting, the listener wouldn't stay behind for a long time :D! I,however, refrain from it, when I am at the listener's end. I believe when the listener too takes part in it, the speaker becomes overcharged and then once again says something to override the listener. Thus, an endless loop starts :D!! The best decision would be to give a smile and listen patiently when the other person is speaking. Never dare to encourage him as by doing so you would end the probability of ending the topic soon :P
But this doesn't mean I discourage boasting!NEVER!!!
Boasting is extremely healthy. It makes one feel good and helps replenish one's energy and self confidence :D! But once you find your listener participating in it too, the wise decision would be to stop ;)
Boasts are never meant to be taken seriously!! Just listen to it from one ear and take it out from the other. The best thing to do if you are not enjoying anything would be to give a blank smile or if you are not even feeling like smiling, just give a blank stare :D! The person at the other end would stop!!
Anyways, as the title says....Boasting is an art. A person knowing the art has the power to overawe people while someone lacking it may end up disgusting others! So, BOAST AT YOUR OWN RISK :D
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